by Steve Reedy
Ever wonder why it’s more common to see couples in counseling after having kids?
As you’re nurturing a child, a lot of people stop nurturing their relationship, and at the three-year mark, whenever your child is finally trying not to kill itself and you’re finally moving on suddenly you find yourself estranged from your partner. I have a lot of couples that come in around the 3rd year mark after having a child just because they haven’t nurtured their relationship and they do feel estranged and so we have to reconnect them – reconnect them with communication, with date nights, we have to reignite their sexual desire towards each other. The main issue with that is that most couples think that something is wrong with them rather than this is just a normal kind of thing that people experience after having a child.