by James Robbins, M.A., LPC Visualize a traffic light. Close your eyes for a few seconds and really try to see it in your mind’s eye. Did your traffic light indicate a color, or was it dark? Was the light red, yellow or green? Did the light keep changing colors, or was it one […]
Why Are Some Questions Off-Limits?
by James Robbins, M.A., LPC There are very few humans in your life that you would ask either of the following questions: How much do you weigh? How much money is in your bank account? These concrete, straightforward questions are socially taboo. But why? Sure, these questions are personal, but people ask way more personal […]
Trump Lovers and Trump Haters Unite! Here’s How You Maximize the Donald Years
by James Robbins, M.A., LPC You’re going to be seeing a lot of president elect Donald Trump for at least the next four years. Even more than you have been lately. Even more than when Omarosa was on “The Apprentice.” Some of you will like this. Some of you will not like this. Either way, […]
What Are You Waiting For?
by James Robbins, M.A., LPC Are you waiting for your life to “kick in?” After the move, after you graduate, after the kids are out of school, after your credit cards are paid off . . . Thing is, no one ever reaches “after.” After is like a rainbow. Run toward it all you want, […]
When to Listen, When to Talk
by James Robbins, M.A., LPC Some people talk too much. You know who you are. But over-talking isn’t the problem so much as under-listening. Next time your co-worker asks what you did this weekend, try something different. Rather than treating her to a detailed blow-by-blow of your fishing trip, focus on her weekend. Ask questions. […]
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