What’s the least helpful thing you can say to someone who is stressed and anxious? Just relax. Telling someone who is stressed to relax is like telling someone who wants to win the race to run faster. Obviously, if an anxious person could relax in that moment, she would do just that. And oftentimes, the harder […]
Easy Relaxation Tip
Relax your face, and your mind will follow. When you think, your eyes are involved. Try to remember what you ate for breakfast yesterday. In trying to remember, your eyes look away for a moment or they defocus. Your eyes react when you call something to your mind’s eye. This is especially true when you […]
A Relaxed You – Tip #2
by James Robbins, M.A., LPC You can’t “hold your tongue” without holding your thoughts. Your mouth moves when your mind moves. Take a moment to recall lyrics from a familiar song. As you play these lyrics in your inner ear, can you notice tiny little movements in your tongue, or the back of your throat? We […]
A Relaxation Tip for You – Tip #1
You think with your eyes. Not literally, but when you think–or remember, or visualize–your eyes move. You’re having a conversation with a friend and she asks what you ate for lunch. You break eye contact, look away for a moment, so you can remember. Or when you dream at night. Even then your eyes keep […]